A thing that feels kind of obvious, but I think genuinely confuses a whole lot of people in the moment:
When somebody posts something in their TL, unless explicitly stated otherwise, they’re not talking to •you•. They’re not implying it’s relevant to •you•. They’re not specifically looking for •your• thoughts. If there’s a question, it’s not addressed to •you•. They’re just talking.
If you reply, however, you •are• talking to them.
Different situations. Different appropriate social forms.
@inthehands Sorry this is so blisteringly off-topic but do you know where you get dot-for-emphasis from (or if you invented it), because I've never seen it before and I think its cool
@river
¯\_(ツ)_/¯ Either I made it up or I don’t remember where I got it! Regardless, glad you like it.