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Broadwaybabyto<p>What’s worse, Adriana tried to get medical care for her headaches. She knew something was wrong. Despite being a nurse, she was dismissed.</p><p>When I had my hysterectomy complication, I was sent home 3 times from ER. Gaslit &amp; told I was fine</p><p>I survived based on luck because I had a man to fight for me:</p><p><a href="https://www.disabledginger.com/p/my-most-dangerous-er-experience-and" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">disabledginger.com/p/my-most-d</span><span class="invisible">angerous-er-experience-and</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/adrianasmith" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adrianasmith</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableism</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/eugenics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>eugenics</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>Adriana Smith was a 30 Year old pregnant, black woman who tried to seek medical care for severe headaches. </p><p>She was dismissed and sent home with brain bleeds</p><p>She died the next day. She’s suffered brain death, yet her body is being kept alive because she was 9 weeks pregnant. </p><p>One of the first questions I had was whether she had an Advance Directive or DNR, as healthcare workers know how important those documents are. </p><p>Did you know only EIGHT US States allow pregnant people full autonomy over what happens in the case of catastrophic illness or injury?</p><p>The rest can (and do) overrule the patient’s wishes. </p><p>Pregnancy is dangerous. Women have been stripped of their autonomy in life AND death. </p><p><a href="https://journals.library.columbia.edu/index.php/bioethics/article/view/8173" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">journals.library.columbia.edu/</span><span class="invisible">index.php/bioethics/article/view/8173</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/abortionishealthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abortionishealthcare</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/uspoli" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>uspoli</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/fascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fascism</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/pregnancy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pregnancy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/autonomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autonomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/adrianasmith" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>adrianasmith</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>In my twenties, I was denied a medically necessary hysterectomy because I “might meet a man who wants kids” </p><p>I fought for years to get the surgery, spending weeks out of every month stuck in a hospital bed needing iron and blood transfusions. Too disabled to work. Fainting almost daily. In constant pain. </p><p>No matter how sick I got, the hypothetical future husband and baby came before my health. What these imaginary beings might want was more important than what I needed. </p><p>When I finally had the surgery, I had a severe post operative complication. The surgeon didn’t believe me. She sent me home. </p><p>I had to go to the ER four times before they found the life threatening internal bleed. Each time dismissing me as “attention seeking” or accusing me of not understanding some pain was to be expected. </p><p>My then boyfriend saved my life. He got loud and refused to take me home, saying he was convinced I would die. </p><p>It turns out, he was right. I had a giant bleed in my belly and an infected abscess that had been growing for weeks while they gaslit and ignored me. </p><p>It was a hell of a crash course in medical misogyny, as well as the need to always have an advocate in healthcare settings:</p><p><a href="https://medium.com/@thedisabledginger/what-my-hysterectomy-taught-me-about-medical-misogyny-and-advocacy-e7d6e7294af8" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">medium.com/@thedisabledginger/</span><span class="invisible">what-my-hysterectomy-taught-me-about-medical-misogyny-and-advocacy-e7d6e7294af8</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicillness</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/hysterectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hysterectomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/childfree" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>childfree</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/medicalmisogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicalmisogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disabilityjustice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disabilityjustice</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>Women’s rights and bodily autonomy are under attack, but it’s important we remember the role medical misogyny plays in endangering our lives. </p><p>It’s not new, and it’s only getting worse. </p><p>When I wanted a tubal ligation, I was denied because I wasn’t married and thus couldn’t get my husband’s ‘permission’. </p><p>When I was told I was unlikely to survive a pregnancy, I asked again and again I was denied because I might ‘meet a man who wants kids.’</p><p>When I needed a hysterectomy, doctors sought the permission of my 22 year old boyfriend of less than THREE months. They asked him if he would leave me when I became ‘barren’. </p><p>Men who want a vasectomy do not have to jump through these hoops. Their body, their choice. </p><p>None of us should need a man to consent in order to get the care we want and need. </p><p>It’s archaic, patriarchal bullsh*t and we must keep calling it out. </p><p><a href="https://www.disabledginger.com/p/pregnancy-will-likely-kill-you-but" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">disabledginger.com/p/pregnancy</span><span class="invisible">-will-likely-kill-you-but</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/bodilyautonomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bodilyautonomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/mybodymychoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mybodymychoice</span></a></p>
Shine My Crown<p>Dr. Kiarra King Is Shaping The Future Of Black Maternal Health—And Dismantling Fashion Stereotypes Along The Way <a href="https://shinemycrown.com/dr-kiarra-king-is-shaping-the-future-of-black-maternal-health-and-dismantling-fashion-stereotypes-along-the-way/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">shinemycrown.com/dr-kiarra-kin</span><span class="invisible">g-is-shaping-the-future-of-black-maternal-health-and-dismantling-fashion-stereotypes-along-the-way/?utm_source=dlvr.it&amp;utm_medium=mastodon</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/BlackMaternalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BlackMaternalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/HealthEquity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HealthEquity</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/WomenInMedicine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WomenInMedicine</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/FashionStereotypes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>FashionStereotypes</span></a> <a href="https://newsie.social/tags/OBGYN" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OBGYN</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>Medical errors kill, maim and traumatize. As a disability advocate, I hear stories of medical negligence almost every day. I’ve got more than a handful of my own stories. </p><p>Few are as egregious a this one. </p><p>A young woman seeks help for abdominal pain. At first she’s dismissed as having PCOS. </p><p>They later find a 25cm (!!!) cyst on her ovary and proceed to do a total hysterectomy and resect part of her bowel and appendix. </p><p>She barely survives, and when she regains consciousness in the ICU is told she’s lost her womb and has stage four cancer. </p><p>That alone would be difficult to deal with, but then she’s later told she doesn’t have cancer and the hysterectomy and surgical menopause were unnecessary. </p><p>She tries to focus on the positive (not dying of cancer), only to have the medical team change course again and confirm that she actually DOES have stage four cancer but in her appendix and lymph nodes and not her uterus or ovary. Pp</p><p>The gauntlet of emotions this woman must be dealing with is heartbreaking. </p><p>How a medical team can get something this wrong this many times on ONE patient I will never understand. </p><p>As always, try and have an advocate with you at all times. I’m unsure if it would have helped in this scenario, but we all need a second set of eyes and ears in the room. </p><p>Ask questions. Get a second opinion. Don’t be afraid to speak up if you feel you’re being mistreated. Reach out online for support from other patients and caregivers… we will help you. </p><p><a href="https://people.com/woman-32-has-hysterectomy-doctors-apologize-no-cancer-11714951" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">people.com/woman-32-has-hyster</span><span class="invisible">ectomy-doctors-apologize-no-cancer-11714951</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/medicalerrors" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicalerrors</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/iatrogenic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>iatrogenic</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/hysterectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hysterectomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/cancer" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cancer</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicillness</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>Me at ER for cardiac issues</p><p>Dr: “Could you be pregnant?”</p><p>Me: “No I had a hysterectomy”</p><p>Dr: “You look too young for that? Are you sure?”</p><p>Me: “I’m confident”</p><p>Dr: “I think you might be confused. Maybe it was your appendix.”</p><p>Proceeds to order pregnancy test </p><p>I’ve had this interaction more times than I can count</p><p>Healthcare workers think I’m “too young” to have had a hysterectomy and automatically assume I’m confusing my womb with another organ.</p><p>They ask endless questions, only to end up doing a pregnancy test anyways </p><p>Perhaps there are patients who confuse their uterus for their appendix, but I would imagine that’s exceedingly rare</p><p>The battle I went through to get my hysterectomy was long and arduous. It involved many physicians lecturing me about how I would never be able to have children </p><p>Asking insensitive questions like:</p><p>“Don’t you want to be a Mom?”</p><p>“You might want biological children, many women do”</p><p>“What happens if you meet your dream man and he leaves you for being barren?”</p><p>You don’t have to endure this type of insulting and misogynistic third degree to get your appendix or gallbladder removed.</p><p>They inform you of the surgical risks, you consent, the end.</p><p>There’s simply no plausible way to confuse the removal of a WOMB with an appendix </p><p>Despite these obvious facts, I’ve had countless doctors assume I’m wrong. That I couldn’t possibly have lost my uterus and it must have been something less important.</p><p>I’ve even had “patient CLAIMS hysterectomy”’written in my chart. </p><p>Why someone would lie about something so easy to prove or disprove is beyond me.</p><p>The end result is always a delay in care while we argue and then wait for an unnecessary pregnancy test which always comes back negative.</p><p>Surely we can do better? </p><p>I understand that doctors must have a degree of skepticism, and that the price of missing a pregnancy can be incredibly high.</p><p>I’m not opposed to them running a pregnancy test if that’s what they feel they need to do.</p><p>I am opposed to the delays and gaslighting </p><p>It was traumatic to lose my uterus at a young age. The healthcare workers who inundated me with misogynistic questions &amp; put a hypothetical man before me and my health? They didn’t make it any easier.</p><p>I feel that trauma all over again whenever I’m questioned about pregnancy</p><p>I wish we could endeavour to either TRUST our patient, or just run the pregnancy test without all the unnecessary and (often) rude comments.</p><p>I don’t object to the test, I object to the way I’m treated leading up to the test. </p><p>Patients know their body best. We know the difference between a womb and an appendix. We know when we’re being talked down to and mistreated.</p><p>It causes trauma. Makes us less likely to trust the provider and far less likely to seek care in the future </p><p>Please treat your patients with the dignity they deserve. Don’t judge them on how they look, the chronic illness or disability they have or their gender or sexual orientation. Listen to them. Work with them. Let them be a partner in their care.</p><p>We can do better together /end<br>After the hysterectomy I also had a post op complication that was ignored by the ER three times. I had a life threatening internal bleed, but was sent home without tests because they thought I was “exaggerating”.</p><p>We MUST listen to patients. I only survived because my accidental advocate stepped up</p><p><a href="https://www.disabledginger.com/p/my-most-dangerous-er-experience-and" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">disabledginger.com/p/my-most-d</span><span class="invisible">angerous-er-experience-and</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/medicalmisogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicalmisogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableism</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/disability" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>disability</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/endometriosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endometriosis</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/hysterectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hysterectomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/discrimination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discrimination</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/mybodymychoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mybodymychoice</span></a></p>
Daniel MacPhee 🔬🧬🧫🇨🇦<p>And the open access article in iScience<br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/ReproSci" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ReproSci</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Science</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/MedMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MedMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Science</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ObGyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ObGyn</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Endometriosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Endometriosis</span></a> <br><a href="https://www.cell.com/iscience/fulltext/S2589-0042(25)00049-5?_returnURL=https%3A%2F%2Flinkinghub.elsevier.com%2Fretrieve%2Fpii%2FS2589004225000495%3Fshowall%3Dtrue" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">cell.com/iscience/fulltext/S25</span><span class="invisible">89-0042(25)00049-5?_returnURL=https%3A%2F%2Flinkinghub.elsevier.com%2Fretrieve%2Fpii%2FS2589004225000495%3Fshowall%3Dtrue</span></a></p>
Daniel MacPhee 🔬🧬🧫🇨🇦<p>“What we've shown in this paper is that the epithelial cells can communicate with the macrophages,"… "Our hypothesis is that their cross talk potentially provides an environment that's conducive to the development of the disease."<br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/Endometriosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Endometriosis</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Science</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ReproHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ReproHealth</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/MedMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MedMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ObGyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ObGyn</span></a><br><a href="https://medicalxpress.com/news/2025-03-hormonal-treatment-endometriosis.html" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">medicalxpress.com/news/2025-03</span><span class="invisible">-hormonal-treatment-endometriosis.html</span></a></p>
Mx Verda<p>OMG WHAT </p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yaobCA-NUsg" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">youtube.com/watch?v=yaobCA-NUs</span><span class="invisible">g</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.aspivix.com/clinical-data-show-significantly-lower-iud-procedural-pain-and-bleeding-rates-with-aspivixs-novel-suction-based-cervical-device/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">aspivix.com/clinical-data-show</span><span class="invisible">-significantly-lower-iud-procedural-pain-and-bleeding-rates-with-aspivixs-novel-suction-based-cervical-device/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/Contraceptives" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Contraceptives</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/ObGyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ObGyn</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/GUMclinic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GUMclinic</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/GenitoUrinaryMedicine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenitoUrinaryMedicine</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/vagina" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>vagina</span></a> <a href="https://lgbtqia.space/tags/tenaculum" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tenaculum</span></a></p>
KidsData<p>CDC suspension of PRAMS data collection on maternal and infant health is confirmed<br><a href="https://talkingpointsmemo.com/edblog/cdc-shutters-prams-program-on-maternal-and-infant-health" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">talkingpointsmemo.com/edblog/c</span><span class="invisible">dc-shutters-prams-program-on-maternal-and-infant-health</span></a></p><p><a href="https://sfba.social/tags/Health" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Health</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/PublicHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PublicHealth</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/Data" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Data</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/DataScience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>DataScience</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/MedMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MedMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/pediatrics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pediatrics</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a></p>
Daniel MacPhee 🔬🧬🧫🇨🇦<p>And the open access paper in Nature Medicine. <br><a href="https://mas.to/tags/IronSupplements" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IronSupplements</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Pregnancy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Pregnancy</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/ObGyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ObGyn</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/Science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Science</span></a> <br><a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41591-024-03385-w" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">nature.com/articles/s41591-024</span><span class="invisible">-03385-w</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>There’s a lot to unpack in this article:</p><p>“on average more than three-quarters of tissue in infected placentas had been damaged, cutting off oxygen &amp; nutrients essential for fetal survival. this damage could occur silently, even in mothers without acute Covid symptoms, offering no warning signs”</p><p>Whenever I read studies about the damaging effects of Covid on the fetus - I’m reminded of a friend who was a high risk “geriatric” pregnancy. </p><p>She caught Covid in her first trimester and spent weeks in the hospital. </p><p>Not a single one of her doctors advised her to mask OR masked around her </p><p>Her baby was born full term but low birthweight and months later is still in the bottom percentile for size. </p><p>It’s too early to tell if there are more severe issues - but everytime they go to the hospital for a check up - everyone is unmasked.</p><p>In the second trimester she passed up a chance to go to Cuba because she was concerned about Zika - yet continued taking no precautions for COVID. </p><p>The linked article talks about Zika and the risk it poses to the fetus - and in some ways it appears COVID might carry MORE risk </p><p>So why is it that almost every pregnant person knows to avoid Zika - yet they’re taking zero COVID precautions? </p><p>Public health failure. If your doctors aren’t masking around you, if the healthcare facility doesn’t require masking, if no one is telling you TO mask … you won’t. </p><p>We’ve downplayed the virus so much that folks think it’s just a cold - despite scientific findings like this:</p><p>“A cluster of stillbirths in first 3 months of that year prompted doctors to investigate. They discovered that the placentas linked to fetal deaths were infected with the coronavirus…describing them as riddled with lesions likely caused by viral transmission through the maternal bloodstream.”</p><p>We’ve known about this for years - yet we don’t advise pregnant people to take precautions. </p><p>They avoid soft cheeses, Zika, Sushi etc but NOT a vascular virus that crosses placenta? </p><p>We’re entering year 6 of this devastating pandemic. That’s millions of babies born who suffered Covid infections in utero. They may also have multiple infections before they even reach five years of age. </p><p>Why aren’t we protecting them? </p><p>I understand it must be incredibly hard to protect young children - but we have to at least try. They’re counting on us. </p><p>Pregnant people can and should be wearing respirators. Their doctors should be as well. </p><p>These kids need the adults to step the F up and make better choices.</p><p>H/t <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://zeroes.ca/@nicktsergas" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>nicktsergas</span></a></span> for links</p><p><a href="https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2024-12-26/covid-may-have-led-to-autism-and-developmental-delays-in-babies-study-shows" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">bloomberg.com/news/articles/20</span><span class="invisible">24-12-26/covid-may-have-led-to-autism-and-developmental-delays-in-babies-study-shows</span></a></p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/covidisairborne" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>covidisairborne</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/covidisnotover" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>covidisnotover</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/wearamask" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>wearamask</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/pregnancy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pregnancy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/maternalhealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>maternalhealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/sarscov2" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>sarscov2</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/longcovid" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>longcovid</span></a></p>
Democracy Matters :verified:<p>Texas will be a wasteland. Republicans did this. </p><p>The Texas Ob-Gyn Exodus <a href="https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2024/12/02/the-texas-ob-gyn-exodus" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">newyorker.com/magazine/2024/12</span><span class="invisible">/02/the-texas-ob-gyn-exodus</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/Texas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Texas</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/OBGYN" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OBGYN</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/RepublicanWasteland" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RepublicanWasteland</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/RepublicansDidThis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RepublicansDidThis</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/NoRepiblicansEverAgain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>NoRepiblicansEverAgain</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/VoteBlueToLive" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>VoteBlueToLive</span></a> <a href="https://mstdn.social/tags/USPol" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>USPol</span></a></p>
AskPippa🇨🇦<p>A article in <a href="https://c.im/tags/JAMA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>JAMA</span></a> summarizes studies of the effects of <a href="https://c.im/tags/abortion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abortion</span></a> bans on the <a href="https://c.im/tags/medical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medical</span></a> profession, especially in Texas. Fewer people enrolling in <a href="https://c.im/tags/Texas" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Texas</span></a> medical schools, especially for <a href="https://c.im/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a>; obgyns leaving the states with the strongest bans; increased maternal deaths; downward effects on number of new doctors entering practice in the US. </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/medmastodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>medmastodon</span></a></span> <a href="https://c.im/tags/medmastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medmastodon</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/health" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>health</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/reproduction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reproduction</span></a> <a href="https://c.im/tags/medicine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicine</span></a> <br><a href="https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/fullarticle/2825887?guestAccessKey=3e2726ce-9ac9-4d18-afd5-89a4866eb1dc&amp;adv=000003918894" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/</span><span class="invisible">fullarticle/2825887?guestAccessKey=3e2726ce-9ac9-4d18-afd5-89a4866eb1dc&amp;adv=000003918894</span></a></p>
Nonilex<p><a href="https://masto.ai/tags/MichelleObama" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MichelleObama</span></a> suggested that restrictions on <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/abortion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>abortion</span></a> have reverberations that go far beyond abortion itself. “We will see more doctors hesitating or shying away from providing life-saving treatments because they are worried about being arrested; more <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/medical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medical</span></a> students reconsidering even pursuing <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/WomensHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WomensHealth</span></a> at all; more <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/OBGYN" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>OBGYN</span></a> clinics w/o enough doctors to meet demand closing their doors.”</p><p><a href="https://masto.ai/tags/BodilyAutonomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BodilyAutonomy</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/ReproductiveRights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ReproductiveRights</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/healthcare" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healthcare</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/MaleSupremacy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MaleSupremacy</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/law" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>law</span></a> <a href="https://masto.ai/tags/HarrisWalz2024" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HarrisWalz2024</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>Misogyny in medicine is focusing more on what a man might WANT than what a woman NEEDS.</p><p>I NEEDED a hysterectomy and was told I wouldn’t survive pregnancy.</p><p>“Informed consent” for surgery looked like this:</p><p>“Don’t you want to be a Mom?”<br>“You may want BIOLOGICAL children”</p><p>“What if you meet a man who wants babies?”</p><p>“What if he leaves you because you can’t bear his children?”</p><p>“Men went their OWN babies - what if you can’t do that?”</p><p>“You will feel like less of a woman.”</p><p>Brought boyfriend in to try and change their minds. Them to him:</p><p>“Will you still love her if she’s BARREN?”</p><p>“Do you want kids?”</p><p>“What if you change your mind &amp; want kids - will you LEAVE her?”</p><p>Him: “Save her life what I want doesn’t matter” (he understood the assignment) </p><p>The assumption through the entire process - as I got sicker and sicker - was that I should WANT to risk my life for the CHANCE to bear a child.</p><p>That if I didn’t WANT that - I would change my mind when I met the “right man” </p><p>Apparently the “man of my dreams” will be so spectacular and the love so all consuming that I will be all too happy to put my life on the line to give HIM babies.</p><p>Needless to say I found that incredibly offensive. I was dying. I was incredibly sick. I needed surgery. </p><p>This is NOT “informed consent”. This is misogynistic and patriarchal bullying.</p><p>Informed consent would have been ensuring I knew it wasn’t reversible and would mean I could never have children. Letting me know risks of complications. Risk of prolapse. Risk of early menopause </p><p>None of that was covered. It was ALL about men and babies.</p><p>I actually did have a severe post operative complication that I was woefully unprepared for because “informed consent” failed me.</p><p>We must do better. Women need autonomy over their body. Inform us. Work with us.</p><p>Don’t put the needs of a man before of our own. Don’t treat us like incubators.</p><p>We are MORE than our ability to bear children. I lost my womb at 24 and I’ve never felt like less of a woman, less of a person. I’ve never regretted it.</p><p>Medicine needs to do better</p><p>One of the worst parts was that when I ended up having a complication - I was gaslit &amp; ignored again. Told I didn’t know my body AGAIN. I needed my boyfriend to get them to even run tests.</p><p>Now - decades later - I’m still dealing with issues from the surgery and complication.<br>I can never know how different things might have been had they acted faster - but I DO know I was never able to fully trust the medical profession again.</p><p>My article on this is below - and I’m working on a future one about informed consent (or lack thereof)</p><p>🧵 1/2</p><p><a href="https://www.disabledginger.com/p/my-most-dangerous-er-experience-and" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">disabledginger.com/p/my-most-d</span><span class="invisible">angerous-er-experience-and</span></a></p><p>
<a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/reproductiverights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reproductiverights</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/reproductivehealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reproductivehealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/prochoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>prochoice</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womensrights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womensrights</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/hysterectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hysterectomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/tuballigation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tuballigation</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/endo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endo</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/endometriosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endometriosis</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicillness</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/mybodymychoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mybodymychoice</span></a><br><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/fuckthepatriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fuckthepatriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/ableism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ableism</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/discrimination" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>discrimination</span></a></p>
Broadwaybabyto<p>I’ve devastated but not surprised by the volume of replies from women who had to fight to get a medically necessary hysterectomy or tubal ligation. </p><p>I’ve written about my own personal experiences - but now looking to write a broader article on informed consent and bodily autonomy. </p><p>One thing that seems obvious to me is that men face considerably less pushback when they request a vasectomy - whereas the sometimes insurmountable pushback women have to deal with. </p><p>I’ve spoken to women who had uterine or ovarian cancer and were encouraged to keep the organs “in case they wanted children”. Even after they said they didn’t. </p><p>I’ve yet to hear of ANY man with testicular cancer being told he must keep the testicle so he doesn’t become “less of a man.” The cure rates are higher if you remove it - so that’s what they do. </p><p>This highlights two painful realities</p><p>1) 1) Men are trusted to know their bodies - we aren’t. </p><p>2) Men are “allowed” to choose to be child free. We are incubators. </p><p>Did you need to fight for a tubal or hysterectomy? Were you successful in getting the surgery? </p><p>Poll 1 of 2 </p><p><a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/reproductiverights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reproductiverights</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/reproductivehealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>reproductivehealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/prochoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>prochoice</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womensrights" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womensrights</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/womenshealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>womenshealth</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/misogyny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>misogyny</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/patriarchy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>patriarchy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/hysterectomy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>hysterectomy</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/tuballigation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>tuballigation</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/endo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endo</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/endometriosis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endometriosis</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/chronicillness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>chronicillness</span></a> <a href="https://zeroes.ca/tags/mybodymychoice" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>mybodymychoice</span></a></p>
D3ad_un1corn 🏳️‍🌈🇪🇪🇸🇪<p>question for all <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/afab" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>afab</span></a> people here, what should i expect from a <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/gyno" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gyno</span></a> appointment? </p><p>i have my first ever time tomorrow and i'm super nervous and anxious. i'm mostly afraid of the physical part - i don't like it when people touch me, and i don't ever want anyone to touch me *there* (especially a stranger i met 5 mins ago xD)</p><p>i guess i just kinda wanna know if that would be mandatory during the first visit. i know they technically can't force me into anything cuz i'm an adult, but still.. <br>maybe knowing others' experiences - especially positive ones - would help me feel a bit less anxious? not sure, but worth a try</p><p>also, in case anyone's wondering, i'm going there cuz i wanna get rid of periods (trans stuff y'know lol), and i actually scheduled a time last year as well, but cancelled it a day before cuz my anxiety got so bad </p><p><a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/obgyn" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>obgyn</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/anxiety" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>anxiety</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/ActuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ActuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/ftm" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ftm</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/GenuineQuestion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>GenuineQuestion</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/MentalHeath" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHeath</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/PhysicalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PhysicalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/AskFedi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AskFedi</span></a> <a href="https://bark.lgbt/tags/question" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>question</span></a></p>

When I was 21 I was told that pregnancy could (and probably would) kill me AND that I was likely infertile.

I asked to have my tubes tied & was told “you’re too young. You may change your mind & want kids.”

🧵 on reproductive health, bodily autonomy & misogyny in medicine.

First off - this was devastating news at such a young age. I had stage 4 endometriosis, a tipped uterus, adenomyosis & other health issues that made pregnancy unlikely AND dangerous.

I was told in the event I became pregnant - they would have to recommend termination.
Abortion would ALSO be risky to my health - though less risky than carrying a pregnancy to term.

Given the threat it seemed perfectly reasonable to request a more fail safe method of birth control (tubal ligation).
I was having laproscopic surgery anyways to try and remove some of the endometriosis - so they were literally already going to be operating. Tying my tubes was a negligible risk compared to the rest of the surgery.
Imagine my shock when I was informed they wouldn’t do it because I might change my mind and want kids.

I asked them whether my “changing my mind” would change my prognosis or their recommendation. Nope. They would still recommend termination.

This was the first time I truly understood how deep misogyny and patriarchal values ran in medicine. My theoretical ability to bear children - whether I wanted them or not and whether it was safe or not - was more important than my health and my life.

It was infuriating. An IUD wasn’t an option for a myriad of reasons so I was stuck on hormonal birth control that I didn’t tolerate well. I was also getting sicker from the endometriosis & adenomyosis… and it quickly became clear a hysterectomy would be best for me.

Given doctors weren’t willing to entertain a tubal ligation - you can only imagine how they felt about a hysterectomy. Same tired arguments about how I could change my mind, I was too young, what if I met a man who wanted kids blah blah blah.

I got these responses from male and female physicians - all of whom were willing to let my health significantly deteriorate rather than “make me barren”. None of whom listened to what I wanted to do with MY body.

I continued to push for surgery because I knew it was what I needed - and was forced to undergo multiple psych evaluations. I heard everything from “don’t you want to be a mother” to “what if you meet the man of your dreams & he leaves you because you can’t have kids?.”

How is it appropriate to ask ANY woman these questions? Let alone a woman who has been told - repeatedly - that pregnancy would put her life in jeopardy? It was as though they thought something was wrong with me because I didn’t want to risk my life for a hypothetical baby. 1/2