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Travis Briggs<p>Me: "If you scratch my chair one more time Shekel I'll disown you"</p><p>My wife: "Don't say that to our son!"</p><p>Me: "My mother said it to me Shekel, and it's much easier to disown a cat than a human"</p><p><a href="https://sfba.social/tags/caturday" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>caturday</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cats</span></a> <a href="https://sfba.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a></p>
LM Little<p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://mastodon.social/@appassionato" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>appassionato</span></a></span> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/bookstodon" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>bookstodon</span></a></span> Thank you for recommending this powerful book. It is indeed a book for these times as people around the world are driven from their homes, communities and lives due to war, <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/climateBreakdown" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>climateBreakdown</span></a>, persecution, <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/poverty" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>poverty</span></a>, <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/fascism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fascism</span></a>, and any number of other factors that rip us from the places and people we love. The life of a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/refugee" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>refugee</span></a> is no picnic nor is the <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> that they carry as we read of these <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Syrian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Syrian</span></a> refugees. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bookstodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bookstodon</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/literaryfiction" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>literaryfiction</span></a></p>
Sarah Jackson<p>Hey there, my two on-demand writing workshops are now pay what you like:</p><p>Writing after trauma: self care<br><a href="https://innerworlds.gumroad.com/l/writingtraumaselfcare" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">innerworlds.gumroad.com/l/writ</span><span class="invisible">ingtraumaselfcare</span></a></p><p>Tools for writing about trauma<br><a href="https://innerworlds.gumroad.com/l/toolsforwritingtrauma" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">innerworlds.gumroad.com/l/tool</span><span class="invisible">sforwritingtrauma</span></a></p><p><a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/WritersOfMastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WritersOfMastodon</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/WritingCommunity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WritingCommunity</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://wandering.shop/tags/WritingWorkshop" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>WritingWorkshop</span></a></p>
Harmony Seeker<p>Tonight in class we explored relational ethics, also known as caring ethics. I’m skipping over the lesson itself to focus on what came up for me.</p><p>There is an assumption in relational ethics that every one has access to multiple caring relationships beyond therapy. Therapy offers connection, others in a person's life are expected to provide emotional nourishment as well. Some people arrive without any safe relationships. Many carry histories of trauma, neglect, or isolation. In those situations, therapy becomes the one space offering presence and care. Rules and boundaries shape the work, the relationship often holds the entire emotional weight.</p><p>Helping others often gets presented as a response to loneliness. Service becomes a substitute for connection. Provide care, contribute meaningfully, fill time with acts of support. None of this addresses the core need. Loneliness demands recognition, conection and shared experience. External acts do not replace mutual relationships.</p><p>Another question arose around empathy. We were asked to think about when we first showed empathy. My answer surprised me. Therapy offered the first safe space where empathy emerged. Childhood lacked attunement, emotional safety, or reflective experience. In that environment, empathy could grow. Survival required internal distance.</p><p>During trauma work, a therapeutic relationship provided attuned presence. Over time, emotional empathy stirred. Later experience gave it permission to form and take root.</p><p>Some conversations treat empathy as universal or innate. This creates pressure, erasing different pathways toward growth. People raised without emotional safety often build these capacities during adulthood.</p><p><a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Counselling" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Counselling</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Therapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Therapy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/RelationalEthics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RelationalEthics</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/CaringEthics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CaringEthics</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Empathy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Empathy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Loneliness" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Loneliness</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/MentalHealth" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MentalHealth</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/TherapistTraining" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TherapistTraining</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/RelationalTherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RelationalTherapy</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Attachment" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Attachment</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/TraumaRecovery" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaRecovery</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/CPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/Healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Healing</span></a> <a href="https://caneandable.social/tags/EthicsInTherapy" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EthicsInTherapy</span></a></p>
Black Flag Medical<p>Drawing and storing whole blood using a 3D printed bottle cap and a disinfected 500 mL drinking bottle—A proof-of-concept study.</p><p><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/trf.18200" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10</span><span class="invisible">.1111/trf.18200</span></a></p><p>"The BC2L system represents a feasible, low-cost alternative for whole blood collection in resource-limited or crisis settings. It demonstrated comparable safety and mechanical integrity to standard systems"</p><p><a href="https://social.coop/tags/medicine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medicine</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/medical" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>medical</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/health" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>health</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/prehospital" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>prehospital</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://social.coop/tags/science" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>science</span></a></p>
Barbara at Projectkin<p>A clip from my Substack Live conversation today with Jennifer Holik. It's a fascinating discussion about <a class="hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23WarStories" target="_blank">#WarStories</a> and other forms of <a class="hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23Trauma" target="_blank">#Trauma</a> and how we relive the experiences in <a class="hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" href="https://bsky.app/search?q=%23FamilyHistory" target="_blank">#FamilyHistory</a>. Join us Thursday for "War Stories and Healing Paths with Jennifer Holik" <a href="https://Projectkin.org/events" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Projectkin.org/events</a></p>
Jena Warrior Princess<p>samedi 31 mai 2025 - </p><p>Aujourd'hui je serais plus fatiguée que d'habitude, si c'était possible. Couchée trop tard, levée trop tôt pour commencer un entretien avec une responsable d'une association avec qui je travaille depuis des années, pour débriefer une série d'interactions très désagréables l'an dernier. Ça été long et pénible, parce que j'avais soigneusement évité d'y penser depuis bien six mois. Je me rend compte en l'écrivant que c'est ma stratégie avec les évènements traumatisants de mon passé. C'est donc syllogiquement un traumatisme.&nbsp;</p><p>Ensuite j'ai galéré à préparer mes affaires, je stresse avant chaque départ, plus encore quand c'est pour Paris, plus encore quand il y a plusieurs destinations à la suite dans le même voyage. Je pars à Paris, et lundi je pars à Bruxelles. Longue histoire, voyage très court. Beaucoup de fatigue en perspective.</p><p>Nous avons marché trente minutes à 13h sous le soleil, nous n'avons pas prévu d'eau ni de crème solaire. J'ai mis un voile par dessus mon chapeau, nous avons visé l'ombre que nous pouvions trouver, et nous nous sommes beaucoup hydratées quand nous sommes arrivées à destination, à la jolie fête chez nos ami·es. Bel après-midi avec plein de jolies personnes, et nous avons réussi à éviter l'insolation.</p><p>J'ai pyrogravé, ce que j'aime bien, de la calligraphie, ce que j'aime beaucoup, à l'aide d'une balle de jonglage transparente, ce qui est une découverte ! J'ai très envie d'essayer plus longtemps, mais je commençais à me sentir mal au soleil, et l'occasionnel nuage de passage empêchait de graver avec régularité. Je n'ai pas pris de photos mais je crois que mon époux·e si.</p><p>J'ai pris un moment au calme pour relire, compléter et envoyer mes deux candidatures pour la fac l'an prochain. J'ai l'impression d'avoir vraiment accompli quelque chose. Le stress d'appuyer sur ce bouton, le soulagement d'avoir réussi terminé ces deux dossiers, c'est presque comme si j'avais un diplôme. Je suis impatiente des résultats.</p><p>J'ai pris le train pour Nantes, puis le train pour Paris, puis le métro avec mon amoureuse qui est venue me chercher à la gare. Elle m'a fait visiter son beau nouvel appartement, nous avons joué à Tetris, Dr. Mario, Animal Crossing, et j'ai beaucoup aimé :)</p><p><a href="https://jena.pink/20250531" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">jena.pink/20250531</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br><a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/insolation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>insolation</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/calligraphie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>calligraphie</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/aujourdhui" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>aujourdhui</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/AuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>AuDHD</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/militantisme" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>militantisme</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/craft" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>craft</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/fac" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>fac</span></a> <a href="https://eldritch.cafe/tags/transports" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>transports</span></a></p>
Assoc for Scottish Literature<p>Aminatta Forna: Creative Conversations X UBelong<br>16 June, free online</p><p>A conversation with Aminatta Forna, award-winning author of the essay collection THE WINDOW SEAT: Notes from a Life in Motion, &amp; more.</p><p>This event is part of the Building Solidarity &amp; Kinship programme curated by Esraa Husain at the Refugee Festival Scotland 2025, developed in partnership with Creative Conversations and U Belong Glasgow.</p><p><a href="https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/aminatta-forna-creative-conversations-x-ubelong-tickets-1387176776079" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">eventbrite.co.uk/e/aminatta-fo</span><span class="invisible">rna-creative-conversations-x-ubelong-tickets-1387176776079</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/Scottish" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Scottish</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/literature" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>literature</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/solidarity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>solidarity</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/kinship" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>kinship</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/war" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>war</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.scot/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a></p>
Elaurian<p>Our trauma, challenges, and shitty experiences are NOT what make us strong.</p><p>We find/build our own strength in spite of them.</p><p>It's OK to be angry that we have to be strong in the first place.</p><p>And it's understandable if we sometimes don't feel all that fucking strong.</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/TraumaDidntMakeMeStrong" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TraumaDidntMakeMeStrong</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Neuroqueering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Neuroqueering</span></a> </p><p>(If your favourite colour isn't here, just let me know, and I'll knock one up for you in whatever colour(s) you prefer!)</p>
#STOPTHEGENOCIDE<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gaza" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gaza</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/palestine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>palestine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/civilians" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>civilians</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/parents" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>parents</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/siblings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>siblings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/loss" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>loss</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/suffering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>suffering</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/deaths" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>deaths</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/killings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>killings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/endisraelswarcrimes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endisraelswarcrimes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/stopisrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stopisrael</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bibi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bibi</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/netanyahu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>netanyahu</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/childmurder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>childmurder</span></a> </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/palestine" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>palestine</span></a></span> </p><p>The bodies of three <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Palestinian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Palestinian</span></a> sibling who were <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MurderedbyIsrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MurderedbyIsrael</span></a> today. <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/picturesthatdontneedcaptions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>picturesthatdontneedcaptions</span></a></p>
Karl Theodor<p>Herzallerliebste 💔 <br> <span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://ard.social/@tagesschau" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>tagesschau</span></a></span> Warum wird der <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Hanf" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Hanf</span></a> gerade von <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Rassistinnen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Rassistinnen</span></a> &amp; <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Faschistinnen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Faschistinnen</span></a> so verteufelt, wie NICHTS anderes auf der Welt? Der <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Mensch" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mensch</span></a> hat ein Cannabinoidsystem, kein "Ethanolsystem"!</p><p><a href="https://troet.cafe/@Lost_Paradise/114295769061890749" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">troet.cafe/@Lost_Paradise/1142</span><span class="invisible">95769061890749</span></a></p><p><a href="https://www.tagesschau.de/inland/innenpolitik/streeck-neuer-drogenbeauftragter-100.html?at_medium=mastodon&amp;at_campaign=tagesschau.de" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">tagesschau.de/inland/innenpoli</span><span class="invisible">tik/streeck-neuer-drogenbeauftragter-100.html?at_medium=mastodon&amp;at_campaign=tagesschau.de</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Drogenbeauftragter" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Drogenbeauftragter</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Streeck" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Streeck</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Cannabis" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cannabis</span></a></p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Epigenetik" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Epigenetik</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Epigenetics" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Epigenetics</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Methylierung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Methylierung</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Janov" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Janov</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/nopain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>nopain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/wepray" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>wepray</span></a> 😎 👯 🙏 💔 👍 🌐</p>
anna_lillith 🇺🇦🌱🐖<p>Traumatized people chronically feel unsafe inside their bodies: The past is alive in the form of gnawing interior discomfort. Their bodies are constantly bombarded by visceral warning signs, and, in an attempt to control these processes, they often become expert at ignoring their gut feelings and in numbing awareness of what is played out inside. They learn to hide from their selves.</p><p>- Bessel van der Kolk,The Body Keeps the Score</p><p><a href="https://mas.to/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/feelings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>feelings</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/TheBodyKeepsTheScore" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TheBodyKeepsTheScore</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/psychology" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>psychology</span></a> <a href="https://mas.to/tags/books" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>books</span></a></p>
David Wakeham<p>Except unfortunately, *I* did know.</p><p>As a child I tried so hard not to believe it. How could those who “love” you, treat one that way?</p><p>So I took all that blame and turned it towards myself. </p><p>Hence, why many of those who taught me that lesson, still walk the earth today. </p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/cPTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cPTSD</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Abuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Abuse</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Monsters" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Monsters</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CisWhitePrivilege" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CisWhitePrivilege</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MonstersAreReal" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MonstersAreReal</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MonstersAreHumans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MonstersAreHumans</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Blame" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Blame</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Religion" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Religion</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/InnerCritic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>InnerCritic</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Survival" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Survival</span></a></p>
Toadlyturtle<p>My love Sabi is sole caretaker for <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/elderly" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>elderly</span></a> mom with <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/dementia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>dementia</span></a> and our son Little Man, while she herself is disabled. What does this mean? It means exhaustion. Even when the hotel is covered, she remains sole caretaker. Even without sleep or food, while sick, in pain, struggling w/ <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a>. <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Disabled" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Disabled</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Latina" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Latina</span></a> family in danger. Please step up.</p><p><a href="https://Ko-fi.com/SabiLewSounds/goal" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="">Ko-fi.com/SabiLewSounds/goal</span><span class="invisible"></span></a><br>PP SabiLewSounds<br>CA toadlyturtle<br>VM toadlyturtle</p><p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Mastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mastodon</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CommunitySupport" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CommunitySupport</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/ShowUpForWishes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ShowUpForWishes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/HelpFolksSurvive2025" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>HelpFolksSurvive2025</span></a></p>
Nox and the Pack :Fire_Enby:<p>Talking with a <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/narcissist" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissist</span></a> about your emotions is a pointless endeavor. Worse: it's dangerous as they'll use this information against you later.</p><p>They are not interested in finding a solution that helps all involved parties to emotionally regulate. They are interested in the solution that helps them alone emotionally regulate. Bonus points if they guilt trip you into finding that solution.</p><p>Let me be clear: if someone makes you feel guilty about your behavior while refusing to cooperate on finding a solution that works for everyone, that's manipulation. That's emotional abuse.</p><p>Someone who truly cares about you would want to resolve the issue in a way that works for both them *and* you.</p><p><a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/narcissism" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissism</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/narcissisticAbuse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>narcissisticAbuse</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/traumaHealing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>traumaHealing</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/healing" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>healing</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/neurodivergent" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>neurodivergent</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/autistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>autistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAutistic" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAutistic</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyADHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyADHD</span></a> <a href="https://tech.lgbt/tags/actuallyAuDHD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>actuallyAuDHD</span></a></p>
#STOPTHEGENOCIDE<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gaza" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gaza</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/palestine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>palestine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/civilians" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>civilians</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/parents" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>parents</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/siblings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>siblings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/loss" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>loss</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/suffering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>suffering</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/deaths" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>deaths</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/killings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>killings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/endisraelswarcrimes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endisraelswarcrimes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/stopisrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stopisrael</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bibi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bibi</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/netanyahu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>netanyahu</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/childmurder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>childmurder</span></a> </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/palestine" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>palestine</span></a></span> </p><p>The body of a <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Palestinian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Palestinian</span></a> child who was <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MurderedbyIsrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MurderedbyIsrael</span></a> just a few hours ago.<br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/picturesthatdontneedcaptions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>picturesthatdontneedcaptions</span></a></p>
Nike Leonhard<p>Was ich vermisse:<br>Die Frage, was es mit Kindern macht, wenn während des Sportunterrichts plötzlich die Polizei auftaucht, eins von ihnen wegzerrt und es dann auf immer verschwindet.<br>Wie viele Kinder werden sich gefragt haben, ob ihnen das passieren kann?<br>Oder ihren anderen Freund:innen?<br>Oder ihren Eltern, Großeltern, anderen Verwandten?</p><p>Die Botschaft dieser Aktion war: "Niemand ist sicher."<br>Sie ist angekommen.</p><p><a href="https://literatur.social/tags/Abschiebung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Abschiebung</span></a> <a href="https://literatur.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a> <a href="https://literatur.social/tags/BleiberechtStattAbschiebung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BleiberechtStattAbschiebung</span></a></p>
Bytes Europe<p>Healing the deep wounds of Israel’s war begins with children <a href="https://www.byteseu.com/?p=1033208" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="">byteseu.com/?p=1033208</span><span class="invisible"></span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Children" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Children</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Conflicts" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Conflicts</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/EmotionalResilience" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>EmotionalResilience</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Israel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Israel</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/IsraelHamasWar" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>IsraelHamasWar</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/PTSD" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>PTSD</span></a> <a href="https://pubeurope.com/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a></p>
MFH Bochum<p>Wenn du <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Psychotherapeut" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Psychotherapeut</span></a>:in bist und in deiner Praxis oder der Klinik geflüchtete Menschen in Behandlung hast, oder du dich mehr für die Zielgruppe öffnen willst und dafür noch Austausch suchst:</p><p>Wir bieten quartalsweise und online einen <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Qualit%C3%A4tszirkel" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Qualitätszirkel</span></a> unter erfahrener Leitung dazu an, um uns im Team und mit Behandelnden aus der psychotherapeutischen Regelversorgung auszutauschen. Sowohl zu allgemeinen Themen, die die <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Therapie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Therapie</span></a> beeinflussen können (wie <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Asylverfahren" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Asylverfahren</span></a>, <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Abschiebungen" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Abschiebungen</span></a>, <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Sprachmittlung" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Sprachmittlung</span></a>, Kostenträger usw.), als auch zu konkreten Fallbesprechungen.</p><p>Bei Interesse gerne an e.leidgens@mfh-bochum.de wenden.</p><p>P.S.: Der Qualitätszirkel ist über die KVWL akkreditiert und gibt dementsprechend Fortbildungspunkte. </p><p>Das Angebot ist Teil unseres AMIF bedarfs.gerecht Projekts:<br><a href="https://mfh-bochum.de/projekt/bedarfs-gerecht/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">mfh-bochum.de/projekt/bedarfs-</span><span class="invisible">gerecht/</span></a></p><p><a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Psychotherapie" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Psychotherapie</span></a> <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Gefl%C3%BCchtete" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Geflüchtete</span></a> <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Asyl" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Asyl</span></a> <a href="https://bewegung.social/tags/Trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Trauma</span></a></p>
#STOPTHEGENOCIDE<p><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/gaza" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>gaza</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/palestine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>palestine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/civilians" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>civilians</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/parents" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>parents</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/siblings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>siblings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/loss" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>loss</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/suffering" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>suffering</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/pain" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>pain</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/trauma" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>trauma</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/deaths" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>deaths</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/killings" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>killings</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/endisraelswarcrimes" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>endisraelswarcrimes</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/stopisrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>stopisrael</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/bibi" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>bibi</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/netanyahu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>netanyahu</span></a><br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/childmurder" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>childmurder</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/starvation" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>starvation</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/famine" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>famine</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/CrimesAgainstHumanity" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>CrimesAgainstHumanity</span></a> </p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://a.gup.pe/u/palestine" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>palestine</span></a></span> </p><p>The body of a little <a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/Palestinian" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Palestinian</span></a> baby who was starved to death -<a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/MurderedbyIsrael" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>MurderedbyIsrael</span></a> <br><a href="https://mastodon.social/tags/picturesthatdontneedcaptions" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>picturesthatdontneedcaptions</span></a></p>