Who fucks who, and why should we care?
@alischinsky on how grammatical nuances can "help us answer some of the big social questions about fucking"
https://stronglang.wordpress.com/2017/08/23/who-fucks-who-and-why-should-we-care/
@stronglang @alischinsky In my project the more experienced partner is very protective of his more innocent boyfriend.
Although they're a fairly egalitarian gay couple, and the more experienced one is usually the initiator, when people get nosy he insists that he is the one GETTING fucked.
He's at a point where he doesn't care what people think, and doesn't want others "typecasting" his innocent BF while he's deciding how he feels.